20 Facts About Me: The Chaos Behind the Ramblings

Welcome to My Chaotic Ramblings! If you’ve ever wondered who’s behind the book blasts, release promotions, and occasional planner spreads, this post is for you. I’m Melissa—blogger, book lover, mom, student, and chaos enthusiast. Here are 20 facts to help you get to know me better.

📚 Bookish & Blogger Life

1. I run My Chaotic Ramblings, a blog where I share book reviews, release promotions, and giveaways with a personal twist.

2. I’ve reviewed over 1,000 books on Goodreads, with an average rating of 4.006, so yes, I read a lot.

3. Fantasy and romance are my comfort genres, especially when they involve fairy tale retellings, slow-burn tension, or “why choose” dynamics.

4. I love supporting indie authors, and I frequently participate in blog tours and book blasts to help spread the word.

5. My reviews can be conversational and emotional, often highlighting character growth, pacing, and the impact of a good trope.

6. I’m in the top 5% of Goodreads reviewers for New Adult, Contemporary, Romance, and self-published books.

7. I’m active on TikTok as @chaoticpsyche2016, where I share bookish content and glimpses of my chaotic life.

8. I also run a chaos-focused Instagram, @planning_w_chaoticpsyche, where I blend organization, reading, and everyday life with creativity.

9. I’m a mood reader, which means my TBR pile is more like a TBR mountain.

10. I believe chaos is beautiful, and my blog name reflects the unpredictable, passionate way I engage with stories and life.

💬 Personal & Quirky Facts

11. I’m a proud mom of three amazing kids, all over the age of 18. Watching them grow into adults has been one of my greatest joys.

12. I’ve been married for 13 years, and my husband is my biggest supporter—even when I’m buried in books or planner stickers.

13. I recently went back to college, working toward my Associate of Science degree with a concentration in Business Administration.

14. I thrive on creative expression, whether it’s writing reviews, decorating planners, or sharing chaotic thoughts online.

15. I’m emotionally invested in series, tracking character arcs like it’s a full-time job.

16. I love crafting themed summaries, especially ones that make readers laugh, cry, or immediately add a book to their TBR.

17. I’m constantly experimenting with tone, switching between polished reviews and chatty, off-the-cuff posts.

18. I’m energized by storytelling, especially when it challenges me or makes me feel deeply.

19. I’m passionate about connecting with other readers, inviting them into my world with warmth, humor, and a little bit of chaos.

20. I believe in lifelong learning, whether it’s through books, college, or the messy beauty of everyday life.

Thanks for joining me on this little self-introduction! Whether you’re here for the book recs, planner inspo, or just to embrace the chaos, I’m so glad you stopped by. Let’s keep rambling, one story at a time.

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