November 2016 ~ My Chaotic Ramblings

Sunday, November 13, 2016

30 Day Letter Writing Challenge~ Day 7~

Dear Ex,

Thank you for leaving me! I never thought I could do this all on my own, but you leaving ha shown me that no matter what I have control of this. I hate that our daughter is suffering because of you, but I will continue to be there for her and try to get you to see what an amazing young adult she is growing up to be.

I pray that you eventually find happiness and that our daughter can eventually be a part of your life without me "forcing" the issue.

Also, thank you for not helping us in any way, I never knew just how great it would be to know that I have supplied everything that the kids would ever need and want. Watching them grow up and become these amazing children has been a blessing, and I really can't thank you enough.

Melissa

30 Day Letter Writing Challenge ~Day 6~

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Dear Stranger,

I have no clue as to the struggles or triumphs you face everyday, keep your head up! Things are always changing and while today may not be the greatest day for you, it can only get better from here!

Melissa

30 Day Letter Writing Challenge ~Day 5~

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Dear Dreams for the future,

I am slowly working on accomplishing everything we have planned! I thought where we were was a great place at first, but I am glad that we have moved on from there! I can see us really getting things done now, and I can't wait to see where we end up!

Dear night Dreams,

While I appreciate that my sleeping hours are not blank and boring, please stop bringing all of my past relationships into them! I don't know if I can stand another dream starring an ex I will always be better off without!

Melissa

30 Day Letter Writing Challenge ~Day 4~

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Dear Brothers,

I can't understand the way you treat mom, She has always been there for both of you no matter what, yet you continue to put yourself and everyone else above her. unless of course YOU need something.

How many times has she cried over you? Worried about how you were doing? Or gone out of her way to make sure YOU had something you wanted while she went without? Of course you don't know, but I do!

I wish that you both would see how the tings you do or don't do as the case may be affect her. Her love for you both is unconditional and I now that even after everything she will continue to be there for you. even if you wouldn't be there for her.

I hope one day you both realize just how amazing she really is.

Melissa

30 Day Letter Writing Challenge ~Day 3~

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Dear Mom,

Thank you for never giving up on me! I know we have had our ups and downs, but your love has truly been unconditional.

I am honored to call you mom and I know my kids are proud to call you grandma. We may have been farther apart at times than either of us liked, but we have always found our way back to each other. I don't know what I would ever do without you, you have been my rock these last few years and I know we can get through anything as long as we have each other.

Thank you for showing me the love that HE couldn't be bothered to show. Thank you for going to every school function even when I had a very tiny part.

Melissa

Dear Sperm-Donor (Dad),

Thank you for not being around. It may have taken me a few years to realize that I didn't need you, but once I did; I realized that Mom was there and would never leave. So again, thank you for choosing to be selfish and only caring about yourself, you showed me exactly what not to look for in a man and father for my children.

Melissa

30 Day Letter Writing Challenge ~Day 2~

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With this challenge I am hoping to get some things off my chest, even though I know all of these will never be read by the person they are written for.

Dear Crush,

I first noticed you in middle school, and we were almost inseparable until I moved. I loved hanging out doing absolutely nothing with you. Sitting in your grandmother's yard with you was the highlight of many summer nights back in the day. I know we don't see each other as much as we used to, but I still have this schoolgirl crush.

I see you out with your girls and I am so proud of the father you have become. You went through so much just to be where you are today and I can't help but smile and know that I had some small part in helping you realize your goals.

Thank you for never taking our friendship further even though you knew I had my "small" crush back then, and thank you for being such a great friend all these years. I can't wait to see you next week when we take all the kids to the park.

Melissa

30 Day Letter Writing Challenge ~Day 1~

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Saw this on pinterest, figured I would try it out!

Dear Best Friend,

I'm sorry that we don't talk anywhere near as much as we used to. I want to thank you for being there for me through everything. I know I leaned on you more than I should have through a lot of things, and I want you to know that I wouldn't have ever made it to where I am now if it wasn't for your unwavering support and encouragement.

I love you to the end of the earth and back, and I will always be there for you; even if we don't talk every day like we used to just know that I always think about you and wonder how you are.

I know things are rough for you right now, and that nothing seems to be going the way you want it to. but you are a strong individual and I have every faith that you will come through this just like I have.

I miss my Pacey!

Melissa